WHO WILL TELL THE CHILDREN?
"I am reminded of your sincere faith, a
faith that dwelt first in your grandmother Lois, and your mother Eunice, and
now, I am sure, dwells in you." II Timothy 1:5
We not only experience life, we rate our
experiences as well. This is a major happening, this is minor. This is
important, this quite commonplace and ordinary. We do the same with history.
Before some events the trumpets sound and the cymbals clang. Before others
we stifle a yawn and move on.
I dare say that at first reading the text
today would be rated "o" for ordinary. "I am reminded of your sincere faith,
a faith that dwelt first in your grandmother Lois and your mother Eunice,
and now, I'm sure, dwells in you." Nothing stellar there. No dazzling
miracle. No loud clashing of opposing forces. No big names. Just second
stringers, like Timothy, Eunice, and Lois. But on second and third readings,
the importance of what is written here quietly shines through.
HERE IS RELIGIOUS NURTURE AT ITS BEST.
THREE GENERATIONS OLD AND STILL GOING STRONG!
We live in a world of colossal problems:
Iraq, Iran, North Korea, Bin Laden, job cuts and the economy, global
warming, Middle East tensions, sub-prime mortgage fiascos, Larry Craig type
scandals, etc. With all these that make the headlines, it's easy to forget
the home front, which in reality, is of ever greater importance;
transmitting the faith, reproducing after our kind spiritually.
St. Paul knew the valued of Christian
nurture. He was there on death row, rather sure that soon his flame would be
snuffed out. As he reflected back over the years, he became conscious of the
good that God had wrought for him through Timothy, the traveling companion
and assistant to Paul on missionary journeys, whom Paul called "my beloved
and faithful child in the Lord." Timothy was the young man on whom Paul's
mantle would presently fall. Paul thanks God intensively both day and night
for Timothy's unfeigned faith, remembering that that faith had belonged in
turn to Lois and Eunice. Paul was grateful for a mother who told her
daughter, and a daughter who told her son.
WHO WILL TELL THE CHILDREN? That is our
question on this day we express appreciation and commission all those who
are involved in our Christian Education ministry.
Let me quickly tell you the story of young
John Wray. John Wray was a teenager while I was serving the Waverly
Presbyterian Church in Pittsburgh, PA. John Wray, Sr., his father, was clerk
of the Session, had spend years teaching in the church school, and worked
with young people in the youth program. But John Wray, Jr. would have
nothing to do with the church. Like more than one youth whose parents were
active in the church, he rebelled against it. Pat and I, having moved to our
next church in Pella, Iowa, heard one day that John Wray, Sr. died. We made
the appropriate phone calls and wrote to Mattie, John's wife, but years
later when we were back in Pittsburgh visiting Pittsburgh Theological
Seminary, we met young John Wray and learned that he had been elected an
Elder, and was head of the youth council. I was astounded. I said to him,
"John, 10 years ago I never thought you would be doing what you are now
doing for the church." I'll never forget his response. He said, "Well, you
know, dad put up with me a lot. And even though I never told him so, which I
now regret, he was my best example of a Christian gentleman, and the best
teacher I ever had. So, what I'm doing in the church is my little way of
saying thanks to him." "I am reminded of your sincere faith, a faith that
dwelt first in your grandmother Lois, and your mother Eunice, and now, I am
sure, dwells in you."
WHY DO WE TELL THE CHILDREN? Certainly not
to coerce them or brainwash them. A child psychologist awhile ago gave an
interesting expression to the public. He spoke of "the pampered child." That
is the child whose every wish is so anticipated by the parents that the
child doesn't have the chance to develop an ego of his or her own. It works
like this. The mother says, "Put on your coat, I'm freezing." Or, "Eat all
your supper, I'm hungry." Or, with regard to religion, "Believe in God, I'm
afraid." Not that!
We tell the children because we want them
to be able to speak their own "yes" and "no." We want to bring them to know
the memories, hopes, and symbols that belong to this family of God we call
the church.
You know how it is in the human family. How
we practice a shorthand there. Around the table someone says, "Remember that
old '75 Dodge. And all the members of the family begin to woolgather and
recall. Their thoughts turn to flat tires in the summer, a trip to the farm,
a ferry crossing. All one need say is "'75 Dodge", and the recollections
come rushing in that help to hold the family together. Sometimes all you
have to say is "Thomas Pond", or "Mt. Washington", or "Key Largo", or "the
Matterhorn," to touch off a train of happy vacation thoughts. That's what
helps keep people together. The shorthand, the symbols, the signs, the
gestures, the code words.
In a larger sense, that is what the content
of faith is all about. We have as Christians a body of literature, a cast of
characters, a set of assumptions, a wonderful history, a heritage of liturgy
and music. What we desire for these youngsters of ours, and for all, is that
they become familiar with these things.
THERE ARE CERTAIN PROPERTIES IN THE
BIBLE THAT THEY OUGHT TO KNOW: Noah's ark, Jacob's ladder, Solomon's temple,
Job's ash pit, Joseph's coat of many colors, Adam's fig leaves, Elijah's
mantle, Judas' 30 pieces of silver, Pilate's wash basin, Jesus' cross. All
of these are highly symbolic.
THERE ARE CERTAIN PLACES WE AND OUR
CHILDREN OUGHT TO KNOW:
The river Jordan, the brook Jabbok, the garden
of Eden, the garden of Gethsemane, the Upper Room, the Isle of Patmos, the
Damascus Road, the Emmaus Road, Mars Hill, and many more.
THERE ARE CERTAIN MOODS THAT OUR
YOUNGSTERS OUGHT TO KNOW FROM THE STORY OF THE FAITH: David dancing before
the ark, Solomon humble at the dedication of his temple, Jeremiah hesitant
about taking on the work of a prophet, Peter in his super-certainly, Thomas
in his doubt, Gideon with his courage, Moses with his anger at the idolatry
of the golden calf, Jonah with his defiance- "I will not go and tell those
Ninevites anything!"
I am reminded of your sincere faith, a
faith that dwelt first in your grandmother Lois, and your mother Eunice, and
now, I am sure, dwells in you."
"Lord, thou hast been our dwelling place IN
ALL GENERATIONS." This is more than a wish. It is a distance possibility. We
have to hand it to our Jewish brothers and sisters. They made sure that the
faith was passed on and transmitted. "Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God is
one Lord; and you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and
soul, and with all your might. And these words which I command you this day
shall be upon your ear; and you shall teach them diligently to your
children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you
walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise."
Who will tell the children? We will,
gladly, with the help of God.
Prayer
Standing as we do, O God between
generations past and generations still to come, we ask for fidelity to both.
Help us to number our priorities well, and to spend our strength and time on
those that matter most. Through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen